Admit the difference

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Yeonjun, your four year old, has a long hair. By now I thought it was time to go to a beauty salon, but it was different. I could not cut my hair, but I came back. Young Jun asked me to go to the beauty salon first and my mother said that Tuesday was not a day for beauty salon and I wanted to go the next day. But Young Jun kept sticking to go to the beauty salon and my mom declared her how to go to the hair salon. Two people exchanged these words and it was not able to be able to go to the beauty salon once. Yeonjun goes to the beauty salon because he can admit it because he admits it by himself.






As soon as I arrived at the beauty salon, it was confirmed that 'Today is closed'. It seemed like my mother's victory. "Look, you said your mom is a beauty salon, right?" Young Jun, who was pensive and pensive, opened his mouth as if he realized something. "Oh, did you mean that a beauty salon is playing? I thought I was going to see an animation in a hair salon."






At moments, she bursts with bread and gives her a flag of victory. When Young Jun went to the hair salon, he would have fun watching TV comic books. So it seems to Yeonjun that the beauty salon has just been recognized as a fun-filled space. "Why do not you go to the hair salon to go to beauty salon?" I understand now that Yeong Jun is talking about this. My mother was a hairdresser's day playing, and Young-jun meant that she would go and play.






Both were right. Even if it is the same situation, it is natural to interpret differently according to each experience and thought. It's a different position. There are a myriad of things happening in our lives. I do not understand each other's positions, I only make my own arguments, sometimes I get disagreements, and sometimes I get better results. If we acknowledge that each other's position is different and listen to each other more, we will understand each other more quickly and empathy will naturally form.Why did the other person think so? Why did you act like that? I think that if you have a little more understanding about it, you will be able to enjoy a happy moment together ^^





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