Relationship and Relationships

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In the year-end meeting # 2019, I was talking about # dreams for next year. One of them tells me that in 2019, I need to focus more on human relationships. The other person has a question about human relations. He says that he is confused about whether to build up a network and manage it, or to live with an existing network. As the years pass, I think about the relationships that I have not thought of in the meantime. There have been many opinions about how we have had good relationships with people in the past and what we should do in order to establish good relationships with people now and in the future.


We, especially in our country, regard human relationships as # connections. A wide network is accepted as a good relationship. On the contrary, if you do not have a wide network, you might think that it is not good for human relations. When you are a person, the first thing you can do is to think about # school, # delay. I have been confused about good human relationships with me. Through social wisdom that we should have a wide network, we had to expand and manage our network. Managing the network was an arrogant thing. It is the principle that no one who manages is originally established.


The most confusing part of me was that I had to have a good relationship, and I did not think it was right to say no to the delay. At least the human relationship I know was like a human network. At some moment I realized. A network is a completely different meaning than a good relationship. First of all, relationships and relationships are different. The reason for my networking starts with my goal to be good. I intend to expand my area through good contacts and to get help. On the other hand, a good relationship is intended to help someone else's life. This is because good relationships are created when you are not yourself.


This relationship and relationships are subject and object different, and the goal is completely different. Depending on whether you are first for me or for someone else first, it can be a network or a good relationship. We learn that good relationships, rather than social networking, bring greater happiness to each other. Now you have to distinguish. We need to know the precise meaning of relationships and relationships. Otherwise, we will continue to mistake network for good relationships and make mistakes.


In 2019, we hope to have a good relationship with you in the new year.

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